Showing posts with label Essay Relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Essay Relationships. Show all posts

Monday, September 26, 2016

What is romance

Romance word always refers to love between a boy and a girl. Love word can mean affection between a boy and a girl and also refer to many other relationships. A mother always loves her children. One does not use the word Romance for that. What is Romance? Why do people feel romantic love for opposite sex? Is it purely biological to carry forward the specie? Then how are we different than other animals? People die for each other in romance? Why? People feel shattered if a breakup occurs? Why? Why write poems and notes on romance? So, romance has something more to do than pure biological need. I would say that romance is a feeling of deep attachment and affection that goes beyond all known human bonds. Romance can not be easily defined but only experienced. One who has never felt romantic will never understand about romantic feelings. Lucky are those who fall in romantic love. In romantic love, a person feels inspired. In love nothing looks impossible. Love motivates one to great heights. To please one's romantic love, a lover can do anything. Some romantic lovers don't even care for their life in love. One wants to look good in one's lover's eyes and wants to win the love for ever. That motivates the romantic lovers. Romance is an emotion of the heart, and it gives a new outlook to life. It makes one feel good. It makes one feel in heaven. a person in romance needs nothing more than his/her beloved. That is romance! When you look at the clouds flying across the sky, when you enjoy the setting sun, when you marvel at the beauty of the snow topped mountain peaks, you feel that no sight can better these beautiful scenes. Take a look at the faces of a pair in deep romantic love with each other and you will say - I was wrong. Romance is beautiful!


Friday, September 9, 2016

Quiz the strength of your relationship

I read a post by a girl that she had an ideal relationship for more than three years. The boyfriend had initiated the relationship and wanted them to commit to each other forever. One day suddenly he came up and said that he liked another girl. After some days he said that he was no more seeing the other new girl and wanted to continue with the old love. This behavior has confused this girl and she wanted to know about the strength of her relationship. Have you quizzed yourself about the strength of your relationship? Quiz your Love - to begin with quiz your love for each other. Write some questions about your mutual attraction and find out the answers of both of you. Do you love him/her more or less compared to the beginning? Does he/she irritate you now? Do you care for each other? Quiz about all the aspects of love. Quiz your dependence - find out how much dependent you are on each other. Quiz yourself about how much you always need him/her? Quiz your partner. Are you both dependent on each other or it makes no difference if the other partner is absent? Quiz your commitment - quiz yourself and your partner about commitment. Is that real or is it like a sand castle? Whether it can be broken easily? Quiz all the pointers that give you an answer about your commitment to each other. Quiz yourself about your relationship. Find out the pluses and minuses. Find out the ways to make your relationship very strong. Otherwise you may be in for a rude shock, like the girl I talked about.